Firstly, I wish you a Happy Birthday this saturday. I'll be out of town for a couple of days and so I send out my wish a few days earlier.
We all have our own problems and issues to work out. Today I am at a very very low point and I just cried alot. The day when I cry no more, I think it'll be worse.
Your H wants you to be the wife but not let you be the real mother - what an issue. May I ask you had lost the custody of your children and will you get them back if you remarry with Andy? Any conditions there? Does it mean if you live together with Andy but not legally married, you are still a biological mother who is not supposed to see and take care of your children whenever you are available? I wish you feel better soon.
Kitty
my last thread : Lost in his MLC
http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=957116&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1