I'm sorry about tonight... that really stinks. H is acting like a man with a few lessons left to learn.
My WAW told me that one of my many mistakes (her list of my 'sins' is longer than Santa's list of children's wishes for toys! that peeved her most was when I chose others over her, like when someone stopped me in the hallway to "discuss" something, not abruptly saying "I'm sorry, but my wife is waiting."
I think this has to do with your earlier advice to me about treating her 'like a Queen.' I think most people, especially women (sorry if I sound sexist here) want to have demonstrated for them repeatedly that they are the most important person on this planet to their partner. I will not forget that lesson if given the chance. I once answered my cell phone (I've only done this a couple of times and don't know why I did so then) in front of my class early in our S, thinking it was S5. It was W and she was embarrassed when I said to her question of was this a good time to talk - "Well, I'm teaching right now!" Yet she was pleased that I placed a communication from her above that of my convo with 50 other folks.
It was big of you to make the tin of cookies and to compliment him on his car. His positives are that he seems well aware that he has wronged you and that he needs to make this up to you. His invitation for an earlier time on Monday was a nice olive branch, no?
that peeved her most was when I chose others over her, like when someone stopped me in the hallway to "discuss" something, not abruptly saying "I'm sorry, but my wife is waiting."