Hi Jo,

Culture is such an important part of a person. I'm glad you were able to introduce your oldest D to Greece and hopefully there will be a chance to do the same with your other children.

Your H's depression sounds like it was sizable. I'm getting a lot of hope from your sitch in that he was able to recover from it and to feel some love/affection from/to you after growing out of his mood struggles.

I am glad that my W is trying to do things that lighten her mood, yet there is part of me that worries that she'll bump into/find an OP that she may attribute such changes to. Like "I was so unhappy with you. Now I'm with OP, and I'm happy." I guess the LBS controls what they can (themselves) and leaves the rest to play out over time.

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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