I have to say that your H seems like a master-manipulator. Not that any of our WAS are exactly treating us the way we deserve to, something about your H's attitude really concerns me. I'm sorry to say that, since I really don't know you.
It just seems like he swings wildly to both sides. I think maybe you should go dark for awhile. Get some power back for yourself.
And do something good for yourself today. And after you do it, post so that I can be happy for you. And maybe copy your idea and do it for myself.
