Well what can I say other than the use of obsenities when they are directed at you HURT alot. I can sometimes be accused of having a bad mouth, but I NEVER aim the curse words at someone...I remember very early on when I met my H and he called me the C word...I was PISSED! Never again in the 14 yrs I have known him has he used that word again, thank god. I agree with anna in that he is not liking your detachment and is taking it out on you when he talks to you...But what bothers me the most is that when you called to tell him about his D1 that should of been what he focused on in the convo...Not that you are or are not a C (which I know that you are not). He should of been thankful that even told him about what happened with your D. If you didnt tell him he would of been pissed at that...Right now unfortunately you cannot win with him...Let him stew in his own juices right now..He is not happy that you are detaching. So tough on him...Are you supposed to just accept that he is with OW????? I dont think so! Keep your chin up and keep working on yourself...Let H live with the fact that he didnt care enough about his damn daughter to rush over in concern for her....GEEZ!
