That's true - I still smile at myself when I remember the night shortly after Bomb#1 when I was lying in bed fretting about what I could do to "make" him love me and suddenly H said "You'll never win that way". I couldn't believe he knew all the stuff I was thinking, and that he was so cold to write me off so harshly. I started to cry and asked him what he meant. He woke up with a start and after being disoriented, said that he had been solving logic puzzles in his sleep. This 9-square math puzzle that he'd never win with the strategy he was using.

Sleep is a very weird place to have a conversation.