At the risk of being out of line...why do you talk to the OW? Do you call her? If she calls you, hang up! If the Dirtball my W is running with called me and somehow mentioned that he liked to leave marks on her during sex, I might be staring down 25 years to life! I'm exagerrating of course but seriously, I wouldn't put up with that sh**. I have no intentions of ever speaking to this guy if I can help it.
