Well, I came home from work today and started picking up before I picked up D1 from daycare because I was home early because I had a doctors appointment.....and guess who showed up at the house....Yes! it was H. We ended up going to lunch...it was a little weird because I kinda felt like he wasn't my hubby because it was a little weird. We came home and H played with D1 and we got along great...I didnt bring up anything about OW(although I saw sex marks on his arm...I know because she told me that she like to mark him so I know she was there...Dumb). H brought up OW before he was leaving....he said that he is still confused and he wants to be home but its hard...hard to give her up. I was so proud of myself...I said in a nice voice that he has to make up his own mind on what he wants...and I can't make it up for him. He said that he is really trying. I know down deep in my heart that IF she was out of the picture we would be fine. We didn't argue once and about twenty minutes after he left he called and let me know that it was so nice getting along all day. I hope that this DB is working....lol! I am going to try and stay strong but as you all know...We hate sharing our spouses....especially with this OW!