Hello, QT. I thought I would pipe in and although I am not able to give advice yet, I do know what you are going through. Our sitches are similar. So is the advice we are getting from others and it has been great advice. I know for me, I wish the sun could shine everyday, cause boy it helps.

I keep telling myself that yes, their R is doomed. If I do all these things for myself, he will notice. It is funny cause I care so much about him that I actually worry that he may find out too late what a mistake he made cause I will be in a great R with a handsome millionaire who helps me with the kids and the housework. lol. I know this is so hard. I will be following along and going through this with you. If you would like to know about me: My sitch

We will make it!!!!