Do you think that is because he wants to be faithful to the OW that he is supposedly not seeing anymore or is it because he doesnt love me.
maybe he couldn't get an erection due to some physical problem and was too embarrassed to say so. Maybe he just didn't want to give "false hope" blah, blah. Maybe he felt bloated and didn't think he'd be all the good in bed at the moment. Maybe he forgot to bring back an overdue book to the library and needed to get there... maybe it's better not to analyze things, huh? Look at it this way: you fooled around a little, then he stopped. That's all it is.
Am I suppose to be sad that it stopped or just let it go. I dont want him to feel uncomfortable or he might never come over again to spend time w/ D1 so we have a little time together. I feel so dumb. I know he doesnt want to talk about it. H called me last night but I didnt mention it. What should I do now? Please give me advise!
Not mentioning it was smart. Let it go and drop it - and stop thinking those kinds of unproductive thoughts. Instead, think positive, new, wonderful, thoughts, such as, "hey! it'll be NYsurvivor's birthday in about 6 months, that means I can spend 6 full months thinking about all the wonderful gifts I'd like to send him". See? isn't that much better and automatically makes you smile? For your birthday, I'm going to get you some apostrophes.
