So sorry. I haven't been posting much either. Take care of you and your D. Give this time, the way your H and ow are acting (like teenagers) it can't last. You work on you, GAL, detach, and when that train crashes--YOU will look like the better choice. But, it takes lots of patience. You have been so cheerful and upbeat in other people's post. Take that and let that be what your H sees even if you don't feel it. You are in my thoughts and prayers, Sherry