I am sorry I havent been posting as much...and I feel the pain you are experiencing right now. I have been there a few times. Do not give an ulitmatum right now, you are not going to like the answer. Trust me on that one. ANd if you are not going to back it up 100% then it becomes meaningless when you do finally mean it. Drop the rope meaning GAL and go about your business and see what happens. DOnt run out and start a divorce, just do your own thing, breath and start taking care of you for yourself and your daughter. H will start to see what he is missing.
