I guess that I am suppose to be my H friend during this time. How do I do this without telling him to leave that OW. I am sure that he is still going to persue her because i know that things dont end overnight. Am I suppose to listen to his emotional hurt or what. I want to ask him if it realy isnt going to work out with the OW but I already have and he said no. I want this all to be my way...lol! I wanted to look at our future together not a whore that has a possibility of raising our D1. Ouch!