I am so sorry that I confused some of you.....let me type without all of my frusteration.
I spoke to OW yesterday. She said that H tells her that he doesnt love me that he doesnt want to be together. I said that might be what he is saying but that he doesnt act that way with me. So she called him and they put me on a three way call. This is when the entire thing went down with H and the D....the argument with OW.
I can see that he is in love with her but it hurts. Why did he say all of those hurtful things in front of her. She called me back and told me that she is through with him. She hope that I will be strong too! H called her and text messaged he all night. H blames me for their breakup because I guess I am a rapist(NOT). H came ove last night to see D1....I was strong and straight to the point. H called this morning at 2am because he couldnt sleep and he wanted to talk...of course I was awake. H said that he is sorry for hurting me. H said that he tried to stop several times with OW. He knows that we would have worked out if she wasnt in the picture. Spoke to both of them this morning. H is sad because of his loss. OW says she is strong but then calls him crying about how he ruined her life....boo hoo hoo! I now know that she wants to make sure I am not in the pic so that they can be together. H said that he doesnt want her anymore(yEAH rIGHT)They cant trust eachother because their relationship started with deception. My mom has told my entire family and they hate him and keep talking sh@t. It hurt when H said that if she wanst in his life he knows that our M would have been okay. I am hurting so bad and I am literally sick because of this. I think that I shouldnt take any calls from OW anymore and just try to live each day. Hope for happiness and try to live for the future.
Thank you all...I really needed these replies.....It makes me feels like I have support
