She hung up on him and told him it was over. He called her 30 times while I was on the phone with OW because she called me.
FWIW, take note on how those two handle problems. Extreme reaction of saying "it's over!", hanging up on the person, the other begging, pleading, lying... that's not how relationship problems are handled maturely and beneficially... oh yeah, those two have what it takes to make a great relationship, and to make it last, lol.
now he hates me because supposedly I ruined their relationship by forcing him to be intimate with me. I never forced him
Of course you didn't. That's his excuse (read: his lie), to her. If she believes him, she's fooling herself. And him, passing the blame for his own actions. More makings for a great relationship... if they were in high school maybe.
It's a glimpse of what portends for them when other problems inevitably raise their ugly little heads in their life.
I dont want them together....It will probably happen but I wish it wasnt over with us. I am hurting so much.
Of course you're hurting. Don't dwell on what's happening now, focus forward. Don't get sucked into their drama!
