H called me last yesterday with OW on the line and advised me that he wants a divorce and if OW wanted him he wanted her too. Everything was fine until he explained to her that we had been intimate. She hung up on him and told him it was over. He called her 30 times while I was on the phone with OW because she called me. He really is in love with her and now he hates me because supposedly I ruined their relationship by forcing him to be intimate with me. I never forced him....it was there for the both of us. I think that she will forgive him and I dont want that. I dont want them together....It will probably happen but I wish it wasnt over with us. I am hurting so much.