You know I read it diligently girl! BTW I'm pretty sure that the member NY is referring to is me, but you probably knew that.
Just a quick aside...While I say I'm done, what I mean is I am not going to hold out any hope anymore. If down the road, she comes to her senses and reaches out, I won't slam the door in her face but I'm also not going to be there with open arms.
QT, I think you are on the right track, if what you are doing feels good, do it. You deserve better. You don't deserve to have to deal with a man who wants to do things with you while keeping his Other Woman also.
Even though my mind is f'd up right now, I'm always here for you. You know you have several options if you want to reach out to me...