Steve, maybe it seems like I'm a glutton for punishment, but my sitch isn't really like that. I have seen some nice improvements, definitely in me that are reflected in our R, but in W as well, especially her filtering a bit and working harder in the moment to communicate with me. She's even been able to compliment me once in a while. Its odd how the D actually released some pressure. No, I'm not even thinking about an OW right now. It is nice to get some attention from the opposite sex, tho.
Martha, yeah I feel that "I'm my best friend" attitude. Its nice to be less dependent on another person for my happiness.I definately feel stronger that way.
Lost, I have appreciated your sage advice since you first popped into an early thread. I hope you keep checking in, even after H moves back home and you two renew your vows!
