I know that telling you not to think about it would be like telling the Mississippi to stand still. Try to act as-if everything is exactly the way you want it right now and that everything is okay. Easy for me to say, I know. But, I'll be in the same spot as you soon and I'm going to have to do the same thing.
I don't know about astrology and all of that, but it is amazing how accurate it can be, particularly w/ my R and life. I did a relationship or couple's type report on one of the astrology websites and it just sounded like my W and I to a "T". For instance:
Quote: You may someday come to a crossroads in this relationship where Pluto will have your relationship come crashing down around you in order to rebuild it again at a much higher level than it was before, just like the Phoenix rising again from the ashes to be born anew. Great transformations are possible because of this aspect.
I see this and it gives me a chill up my back. Many other parts of the reading were highly positive as well. I know that it is for entertainment value, but it is eerie how aacurate it was. All I did was give our birthdate and birthplace info. I hope the reference to the Pheonix comes true.
I'm not sure what the prupose of that little anecdote was, but I thought I'd share it w/ you.