Not much to say except you are doing great. Especially with being a dad. Just keep on doing what you are doing. Great PMA.
The interactions with your W sound positive. I think complimenting the times she does things with your son that are positive is a good thing. I'm not really sure I'd advocate a blanket "you're a good mom" unless she really is, since you are trying to encourage more motherly interactions.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
