LA,
I have some comments on your sitch, but your thread got chomped by the lock-monster! Open a new one, would you? Hang in there, and I'll be over to spew advice when you set up shop.

Gabriel

God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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