Just wanted to pop in and check out your situation. It sounds like you are pretty much on cruise control for a little while. I think your attempts to praise your wife have been in good taste. You hopefully are at the very least working on a good friendship since you will always have the bond through your son. I wish I had made the effort to be friends with my ex-W (first marriage) rather than enemies. Things go smoother that way.
Anyway, I'm hoping that you are one of the 20% that get remarried to their ex-spouse. I would think that DBers should have better odds than the general public so maybe it's like 30%.
Your attitude sounds great and the goals you have set seem like they'll keep you busy.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
