Thought I would drop in...

I've still been extremely tired since the miscarriage. I was doing better up until about three or four weeks ago. The exhaustion is causing problems for me at work--I keep coming in late. No matter how early I go to bed or how many alarms I set...I oversleep. And I don't even have to get up early!

In all honesty, I don't think I'm sleeping properly. Everything wakes me up. The cat walking into the bedroom wakes me up. Anyway, got a recommendation from a coworker for an accupuncturist here in Phoenix...had my first appointment today. Whatever she did opened up my lungs--I sure can breathe better, which seems to help some already. She also told me I was pushing too hard, and that I needed to not force myself at the gym. Hopefully this will help, because right now it even seems like such an effort just to go into the kitchen to get a drink of water...

DH and I are doing really well. He recently went back to Indy to visit family for a week. Only minor panic on my part. Better than the complete breakdowns I used to have.

Something I realized...

The biggest improvement in our R happened when I completely and totally dropped the subject. Of xow, xrm, all of the mess. DH has told me several times that it's easier to be angry with me than to feel guilty. Even if I was just chatting, the subject or the timeframe made him feel guilty. It was hard at first...but I stopped asking for any and all reassurance.

What happened was, as DH thought less about it, he became more affectionate. Which, in turn, meant I felt better.

Hope everyone is doing well. It's amazing how, the further we get from the mess, the happier I am that we are still together.

[color:"purple"]Nevanna[/color]