I am new to the boards and I was reading some post and I read yours. Congratulations on baby!!! I was wondering if you could help me. You say that in your threads you refer to reading M/V or something like that. I was wondering if you could tell me what that is. I have been down a trouble road and we repaired our marriage and now we are back down trouble road. I take things personally and sound alot like you were and my h is alot like your H. He is senitive and If I saw your not doing this or why won't you do this he gets very grumpy and pissed at me. He is not at a state of mind where he will look at himself and see what he needs to change. I have fallen into a trap of depression and all I can think about it us and how bad it is. I woke up this morning and said no more self pitty. Do you have any advice or reading material to help me improve myself and understand him as a male better. Congratulations Again!!