My husband asked if it had made me feel better. I said that it had while I had done it, but later I felt foolish. I apologized for overreacting although I thought my reaction was totally justified, it wasn't right.
But I feel like he's so emotionally detached from our M, that he doesn't really care what my reaction was, or that I apologized.
nristow, it's recommended that you start your own thread so that others can read all about your sitch in one place and post, rather than intermittently post about your sitch on others' threads. You'll find it more helpful.