Hi Busting - just remember the DB catchcry - "will this bring us closer or further apart?" and you know the answer to that one!!
There have been many many times I've wanted to call or speak to The Goddess (I've also contemplated spraypainting 'husband stealer' on her house and car, calling her parents or her boss and telling them she's a home wrecker, poisoning all her camelias - the list just goes on) but you know what - I haven't - because that would not be appropriate DB behaviour!! And in the cold hard light of day I'm glad I haven't done any of those things I've felt compelled to from time to time because it would only reflect on me.
Don't call Busting. You don't need to - you've got you and your marriage to take care of, you don't need to deal with her as well.
Thinking of you
Aussie Girl
Life is what happens when you are busy making plans