Are there times when you do have strong feelings for her?
What is different about those times?
I think we all go through this at times...loving your spouse but not really liking them all that much, or finding much to connect about. I know in my case it has been a tremendous struggle to remain attached to MrHP since he changed so drastically a couple years into our marriage. It's like I was meeting him for the first time and finding a way..developing a way, really...to love this new guy as much as I had loved MrHP, version one.
Anyway, back to my original question: When are some times when you feel really connected to her? What are YOU doing to create and foster the sense of closeness, in a way that is meaningful to her?
