quote: ------------- So, here's the $1M question...What do you do if all these "fixes" is making it more clear that you really don't have strong feelings for your spouse? -------------
Love is a choice. Your feelings will ebb and flow.
Be careful of how much stock you put into believing the latest (fad) info on codependency. Some codependency is not only normal in a marriage, it is also healthy.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.