You know, I dish out a lot of "talk" on this site. It usually follows the "rules" of my C, Schnarch and some personal experience. Despite having a fairly evolved understanding of everything and thinking I've made good progress, my feelings are still really screwy and I can't put my finger on why. Maybe I've been overlooking something much bigger than marital system components, differentiation, etc...the stuff we strive to fix.

So, here's the $1M question...What do you do if all these "fixes" is making it more clear that you really don't have strong feelings for your spouse?



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