Julie,
Why would he look at porn before you ML?

Is this his way of saying that more of his needs and likes needs to be incorporated into it?

I mean, to me, porn is something you seek out if you A. want to MB; or B. want to watch it with someone else.

Does he use it like JJ's husband does, to get aroused? I never got the impression that either you or he thought he needed that.

Just curious; I have no advice or thoughts to offer..just nosy, lol.

H.