Julie, Let me ask you this: What exactly bothers you about his porn use? I know you've talked about it here, but I think I forgot. Does it take away from his marital sex drive or not?
I think I too am getting your situation mixed up with Cally et al.
I'm with Jenny; he doesn't sound jerky at all. The only thing I would consider jerky is if a spouse is masturbating instead of ML to their partner.
Honeypot, whose mother loves my H more than me, too.
