1d) Stressed out and need a physical and mental release.
This is the one that probably bothers my husband the most, since I am a sahm and have a ton of stress going on all the time. In addition to that, he feels obligated to participate in the destressage because he created these children with me. He feels that Sex to Destress is sortof "using" him and I'm not sure if he's right or wrong, I just know that I want sex on the days when I've been particularly strung out with my little lovelies.