That was an interesting experiment you did. I certainly have done some 2,3,4 and 5 in my time. Actually the worst case scenario, IMO, is when you want to have sex for reason 2 but then you get rejected and segue into wanting to do it for reasons 3 and 4 because the rejection made you feel needy and shakey about the relationship. But mostly I initiate for reason 1 though I would break reason 1 down into a few categories.
1a) Flat-out physically horny- find myself halfway to the female equivalent of a hard-on for no particular reason as I'm going through my daily routine.
1b) Restless, antsy, cranky and if I ask myself why I know it's because I haven't had sex in a while.
1c) The mind then the body- I put on a sexy shirt or I hear a sexy song or I read a sexy passage in a book or I see my H without a shirt and I start thinking about sex and how nice it would be to have some in some very specific ways.
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