I'm so very happy for you. I admire the way you sit with your feelings and work through them, instead of shooting off like a volcano like I do. I will take a page from your book and attempt this, it really is a wise way to go about things.
I try, but I fall flat on my face plenty of times! Such as the time I whined to H that I was feeling rejected even though he never actually rejected me. It was at the tail end of my period, and no doubt hormones played a big part in that. I should learn to zip my mouth at that time. Fortunately, H knows that I get cranky and cuts me a little extra slack.
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P.S. Julie, who has the greater regret? You or H? I was confused on that part..
Hmmm…I didn’t want to get into this right now. But let me just say that H is the one who has expressed regret that I am the only woman he has been with. He didn’t say it unkindly, it was intended in a spirit of self-disclosure and I took it as such. But it did stir up some reactions and feelings in me that I want to explore.
