Quote: Congrats on continuing in a good space! I think part of the reason that both you and I are feeling okay/comfortable with our current situations is that our H's have both significantly upped the physical affection/ words of affirmation level.
Bingo! Funny - I just read what I wrote and realized that my focus has shifted so much. At the very crux of my happiness and contentment is the fact that my H has kept his promise and we have maintained the sexual frequency we agreed to. If he broke his word on that, the rest would fall apart because the trust would be gone. That being said, it is true that I had other needs that I was blinded to because of the lack of sex. It is a pyramid that we are slowly building up.
