I'm so very happy for you. I admire the way you sit with your feelings and work through them, instead of shooting off like a volcano like I do. I will take a page from your book and attempt this, it really is a wise way to go about things.
JJ, Thank you for putting into words what my problemo is of late. When H affirms me verbally and gives lots of affection, I can easily let him off the hook re: sex. When he ignores me I cannot do this. It's that ol seesaw thing.
HP
P.S. Julie, who has the greater regret? You or H? I was confused on that part..
