Congrats on continuing in a good space! I think part of the reason that both you and I are feeling okay/comfortable with our current situations is that our H's have both significantly upped the physical affection/ words of affirmation level. I'm much better able to wait until Friday for sex if my H makes a point of being physically affectionate or saying something sweet on Wednesday because this makes me feel like he at least has me on some sort of "layaway" plan towards which he's making a deposit.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
