Quote: If you are trying to work on your marriage, why would you want to tell her about the PA?
That's a touchy subject. On the one hand, if the A is over and true remorse has occurred and there is never to be any such behavior on the part of the erring spouse ever again, then why makes things worse indeed... on the other hand, what happens down the road if the wife somehow finds out about it secondhand? Pain again. Trust goes out the window maybe forever?
