My writing comes across as cocky and arrogant, for some reason. Just ask NOPkins... he's been "on my case" about it since forever. Anyway, in real life, I'm neither of those things. Also, I don't treat this like a game... and I consider my W's feelings before I do stupid things (like making a scene in front of the kids or the inlaws, which I would avoid doing).

Yep, I did have the A. I was weak and stupid. However... even now, after the A has been over for a while, my W refuses to see that I'm not happy with the M and refuses to admit that she's not happy. Maybe she doesn't trust me at all, which is understandable. After all, I've lied to her a whole lot in the past. Also, I never admitted to the PA - I admitted to the EA and that I loved OW, but never told W about the PA.

I have a feeling that I'm on the road to D, just because my W always said that if I had a PA with another woman, she'd kick me out and D me. When I finally get around to admitting the PA, I'll find out if she meant it.


- Chris.