I have some suggestions...don't treat this like a game or that your wife cannot handle what you are about to do. She has obviously taken you back after having an affair-she needs to learn to trust you again. You did this not her. And how about not telling your wife in front of the kids. How about waiting for an opportune time to tell her. It sounds like from your post you want to shake her up. It doesn't have to be like that. I'm fairly new but your post sounds kind of arrogant and cocky and maybe you should resolve some of that before you goto your wife and ask for forgiveness?
