Welcome to Phase 3 of my life, post-affair. I'll populate it with my story and thoughts over the next 2 weeks, and then we'll see where it goes. Why Phase 3? Well, Phase 1 was the whole breakup / dissolution of the relationship with OW. Phase 2 was the 18 months after the PA ended - I tried a bunch of ways to regain my W's trust and get her to talk about life, but nothing has worked. Phase 3 will be "the final" phase... either I end up walking the road to D, or my W wakes up and keeps me around. There will be a MC along the way.
I am not making waves with the wife right now because we're going on vacation in 2 weeks. I don't want to ruin this vacation for her. She deserves to enjoy one more nice time before I shake things up.
Anyway, there are D7 and D3 to worry about in all of this. They will be too young to understand things right now. Mommy already yells a lot at them, and when mommy starts yelling at daddy, they may get upset. We shall see.
