Perhaps it's partly because you may be posting in the wrong forum for your sitch? You may wish to try posting in "Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again" and see how it does there.
Appreciate the response. I'll check it out. It doesn't bother me if I don't get any response, tho.
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places." - Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms, 1929.