Quote: Work really hard at not asking those questions to get your reassurance. Act as if you trust him and it will come. He needs to be able to trust you too. Trust that the next thing that comes our of your mouth isn't going to be the same old stuff. My H still looks at me with rolled eyes when he thinks I'm going to say something looking for reassurance. But is he surprised when I say something else!
dont you just love moments like that!
as far as "questioning hour" unless you one that really needs to have all the details, I would use that time to just enjoy each other instead.
it's not an easy road - theres alot of turns, twists and dead ends. It's a balancing act and alot of the time you may feel your the only one holding it all together. But if your patient enough and strong enough to do that then you will start to see he come around.
I do find that they want that immediate old trust and faith back.......they realize it will take time and I think they get more impatient at it then we do. lol! I think that when we focus on ourselves it's boosts our spirits, we feel better about ourselves and that projects confidence, and they would much rather see that then to see us worry. I think it gives them a sense of reassurance.
I wish you the best of luck! keep reading and posting!
