Faith, try really hard not to ask him when he gets home either. And thank him and tell him you appreciate him picking her up. He may end up telling you why it took an hour when he gets home. It seems we shouldn't have to thank them for doing something like this--it is part of being a parent--but I am learning that my H loves for me to thank him for anything he does and I get a cheerful "your welcome" back. Good for you for not asking. He may not say it, but I'm sure he noticed because he is used to you doing that in the past. He's going to be watching you to see if you are for real PATIENCE