I just wanted to say congrats! After what was probably the hardest and longest 4 months, your H IS BACK! He wants to work on your M! From what you've posted, you have so many positives and a wonderful start in your sitch.
I understand your insecurity when your H is at work or whatever, but you must remember and tell yourself, "My H has come back. He wants to make things work. He is professing his love for me. HE IS TRYING."
Have you read Divorce Remedy (DR)? If not, it would be good to get it. Read it then read it again and again. As you stated in your post, you know that there were problems in your M before. You need to look at how you contributed to those issues and change them. Don't just do it for the M, do it for YOU.
Another great book is The Five Love Languages (5LL) by Chapman.
You may want to post in the "Piecing..." forum. Alot of helpful, insightful, and inspirational members there. Hey - we're great here, too! But they may be of a little more help there.
I see so much hope for your sitch. Be strong and good luck!
JV
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
