My H is back after a separation of nearly 4 months. He was having an affair with a co-worker and eventually admitted it to me. He has been back home for 3 weeks and just returned to work last week. I am trying to trust him and he has been trying really hard. He goes to church with the family now and spends all of his time with me and our child. The only issue I have now is maintaining my happiness and trust when he is at work. He works the graveyard shift and assures me that everything is over and deep down, I do believe him. We had a bad marriage prior to this affair and while I don't excuse it, I understand. Now, I just want to be with him and make our relationship work. We are happier than we have ever been, however, I find myself bringing things back up. I am learning to hold my tongue but sometimes don't resist the urge to question him. We had a wonderful weekend and I ruined it by questioning him this morning. He said that he understands my frustration, however, he is frustrated too because just when things are going good - I bring everything up again.
Please help me with coping with this. My marriage is on it's way to a place that it has never been. My husband calls/pages me all day with little notes professing his love and is being everything I could ever want. He told me that he now brags to everyone about how wonderful I am and he loves it. I don't want to ruin that.
