Alone

[Livnlearn]

I had anticipated all this happening anyway, so had already warned older guy that I couldn't go far away today, as I *might* have to be back early.

I wrote an email to H, telling him how it was his responsibility to arrange D's transprt here, not mine. That I would be here to receive D today, if he phoned me on my mobile the moment she left his place, so I could get home just in time.

That this would be the LAST time I changed my plans to accomodate him.

I do not want to escalate the war, or have D feel like a parcel, but I am trying to lay down my boundaries for the future.

My good friend went through our SA yesterday (we translated it into English), and we have established (it was confirmed) that unless my circumstances change much - that is, I am earning much better than at present, then H has no grounds to pay me less then he is already. Still need to pay a little visit to the lawyer, though.

Livnlearn

PS I sure could have done without all the stress this weekend. It seems to go in cycles.

And I still have loads of preparation (read, cleaning) around the house to finish before my sis and co arrive...