Quote: I think I will tell him my sis is here, but also that in our present situation it would now be "inappropriate". Remember, he used that word with me when I invited him to my country of origin last year? Maybe by using that word he will get it?
IMHO, I think this is a very suitable word and applies well to your sitch. I mean really, he left, so why should he continue to view your residence as his open ended hotel when he breezes in and out of your town? Even if you didn't have to come up with a word, you owe him no explanations on why you don't choose him to spend the night at your place. The mere fact that you don't want him to--for any reason--is good enough.
Keep smiling! I like your backbone and moxy!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
