Thanks for the links. I do need to find out more. I don't think H can do much now, unless we move towards divorce, and that can't happen for another two years.
Yes, my sister is a bit of a Rottweiler with people she doesn't care for, and she has never really cared for my H... (And she's only 4'11"!!)
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