I love that you are able to stand back from his drama and see what is really going on. You're right, his way of phrasing things is suppose to put you in a the " damned if I do, damned if I don't boat." Guess what!!?? It's not your boat! It's his!
About changing the agreement? I think Michele said it all!
I think you have been doing a beautiful job of handling him. Go You!!!
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
